In
a recent blog post, and a subsequent video, I’ve been suggesting that gender
is a problematic term that has been so distorted and abused definitionally that
we could probably do without it. Some folks have found this one hard to swallow
– you can almost hear them saying: Even though you’ve been so right on
everything else, James, I think this one is a step too far.
But
I don’t think it is a step too far – I’ve been debating it for a few weeks now,
on the back of responses to my post about sex and coin-tossing, and nobody has
been able to convince me so far that I’ve got this wrong. And I’m quite open to
being convinced, because my life will probably be a lot easier if I can accept
gender as a valid term. But, so far, I cannot. No one was brave enough to
debate it with me on camera (the invitation still stands), so I had fun
convincing Chat GPT instead.
For
a fuller elaboration of my position, you should read (or re-read) my original article
Sex And The Gender Agenda. Here I will
lay out my position on gender even more comprehensively, and tackle the objections
proffered too. I don’t think we need the term gender, and it’s for two principal
reasons:
1)
Sex
is a perfectly adequate category for defining males, females, and those in the
tiny minority who fall into a category that can be defined as intersex.
2)
Everything
else that you can put forward as justification for the term gender is better
defined under a broader category of maleness and femaleness.
That
is to say, sex is a comprehensive enough term to define males, females and intersex
people, and every subset definition that people claim falls under the umbrella
term gender is, I think, already adequately defined on its intrinsic terms, where
gender adds no further utility to the equation. In the last few decades, we
have learned a lot about how complex individuals are – and numerous revisions of
the broadness of the term ‘gender’ have been put forward as ways to foster
greater understanding, inclusivity and tolerance. But I submit that what we’ve
actually learned is that there is a lot more to being male and female than we
ever realised, and that what needs establishing are broader categories that
encapsulate the deeper complexities of being male and female.
Consequently,
I am compelled to conclude that gender has failed in both the ontological and
the epistemological category - that is, there isn't a clear way to define what
gender is (ontology), and there isn't a way we can know gender (epistemology)
in any objective sense. If we can neither define gender satisfactorily or know
what it is for an individual, then the term has no real utility, and promotion
of it can only lead to both abuse of the term and confusion. Once you add to
that the fact that identity is a melting pot of complex feelings, thoughts and
sensations, and the fact that the things we tendentiously assert as being
properties that make up the package of gender (masculinity, femininity,
sexuality, etc) are perfectly sufficient as descriptors in themselves, it is
difficult to make any case for the utility of the word 'gender'
If
people identify as something that has no basis in reality - such as if a 50
year old woman claimed to be 40 or a young boy claimed to be superman, we would
rightly say they are living under a delusion or a fantasy. It is, of course,
slightly harder to identify the delusion of gender than the delusion of being a
younger age or having superhero status, but it's still illusory if it isn't
based on reality.
Struggles
with identity and development are real things - but once we categorise
masculinity, femininity, sexuality, hormonal development, etc as traits that
can be identified and considered without the need to introduce a vague term
like gender, we do not then need to cite those things as being independent
criteria to which we can appeal to in order to confirm an individual's claims
about their gender.
As
an analogy, suppose I describe my garden as having a lawn, some flowers, a
shed, 3 trees and a decking area - and you come along and say that gardens
should also be underpinned by the descriptive term 'Fairydust'. That is, as
well as my telling you about my garden's shed, flowers, etc, you say I have to
also define what type of fairydust it is. And I ask what you mean by fairydust,
and you say its category of fairydust depends on whether it has a lawn, a
patio, trees, a greenhouse, bushes, sheds, etc - I'd be fully justified in
saying that the fairydust category adds nothing that is already covered in the
descriptive properties of the garden.
I'm
not saying that humans can't introspect and come up with many different
feelings, ideas and physiological experiences from which they might wish to
lump them together and give them an overarching category called gender. But
trying to make sense of an accumulation of human introspections by inventing an
abstract term and seeking to categorise all of them combinatorically is proving
to be both epistemologically impractical and societally catastrophic in this
case.
On
top of gender's lack of ontological and epistemological merit, the introduction
of the word causes unnecessary additional confusion into the world that
wouldn't otherwise be there. People struggling with their sexuality, or with
their sense of self-identity, or with anxiety, or with their body shape may say
they are experiencing gender dysphoria or that they are born in the wrong body,
when what they are really experiencing are things within the realm of being
male and female. There are, of course, other motives to ascribing gender to
individual attributes - a desire to be accepted, a desire to be different or
break conformity, a desire to take the pressure off particular life situations,
an incentive to obtain success in other environments (like sports
competitions), the need to seek attention, and so on. But so far, those
debating with me have remained largely uninterested in these considerations.
Let
me now tackle some objections that repeatedly came my way during the debates:
Objection
1: Denying the validity of the term gender discriminates against or trivialises
the people struggling with gender dysphoria.
It’s
difficult to believe that people would put that forward as an objection – they miss
the obvious error in their thinking. I'm denying the need for the word for
gender at all, so you can't cite gender dysphoria as a problem, when what we
are questioning is the term gender itself. A fundamental tenet of my position
is that I don’t believe there can be a mismatch between someone’s biological
sex and what they claim as their gender identity, because the latter lacks any
empirical clarity or objectivity. So citing gender dysphoria (the very
definition of the aforementioned) as a counter-argument still leaves all your
work ahead of you, because you haven’t provided a valid definition of gender,
much less a superior argument that defeats my two primary propositions.
Objection
2: Isn’t your position denying their humanity and their right to identify
however they choose?
The
problems with gender that this objection tries to capture are typified by this
quote from Cade Hildreth, who calls himself a non-binary LGBTQ+ entrepreneur.
He says: “Gender can’t be binary, because it is a personal identity and is
socially constructed. One’s gender identity could be woman, man, transgender,
nonbinary, or an infinite number of other possibilities.”
Last
I looked, there are over 40 listed genders in the UK on standard lists, and it
has probably grown by now. How can anyone make sense of the different
combinations? I've heard people refer to themselves as they/them, he/they,
she/they, he/she, two-spirit - it's not possible to validate these claims.
Unless you just say that anyone is anything they claim to be - in which case,
it no longer bears enough resemblance to empirical reality to be meaningful. So,
basically, gender is your personal identity and there are an infinite number of
potential genders. This kind of thinking reflects what is happening more widely
among our youth today, where a reservoir of social contagion has washed over
our young, and they think that they can choose their gender to reflect their
personal feelings about their unique identity. The desired ability for every
individual to choose their unique gender makes the term gender utterly
meaningless, as there are potentially as many different genders as there are
human beings.
Objection
3: Unfortunately for you, humans don’t fit into the neat binary boxes you are
trying to force them into.
Well,
firstly, I’m not trying to force anyone anywhere, I’m simply questioning the validity
of an empirically dubious word that no one so far has been able to define
adequately. Secondly, I am not suggesting that identity falls easily into neat
boxes – but that does not mean that the categories male and female are too
small to encapsulate the properties that others are trying to claim under the
umbrella gender. There are many traits that overlap between the sexes, which
means females can show up as extreme in more masculine categories, and males
can show up as extreme in more feminine categories. In other words, in some
traits, females can appear more male than males, and males can appear more
female than females. But I believe it is folly to mechanically confuse
masculine and feminine outliers with gender dysphoria. The vast majority of
people who have atypical personality profiles are still within the natural
distribution of male and female identities – they are not ‘born in the wrong
body’. In most cases, what is perceived as “gender identity” is part of their
personality profile from within a binary sex category, usually related to
masculinity and femininity, but confused with one’s sex.
Objection
4: You are disregarding all the cases where someone you know (or know of) has
claimed to be so much happier and more fulfilled after they changed course and
identified as someone of the opposite sex.
This
doesn’t convince in the slightest. I think we all know that such a testimony is
absolutely not a reliable metric for truth propositions, and nigh-on impossible
to accurately measure, due to all the complex variables. For example, as
Christians we all know of many people who claim to have fallen away from belief
in God, and no longer want to have a relationship with Christ. In their dozens,
they tell us that since they left Christianity, they are happier, more fulfilled
and less pressured - but those of us who know the Lord Jesus know that this
perceived change for the better is a huge misjudgement. How we say we feel
about something is often transitory, incomplete, and not necessarily a reliable
measure of what's true and factual.
Objection
5: What about transgender people? – they are being discriminated against in
your argument.
Same
as with gender dysphoria, if you can’t satisfactorily define gender, then you
can’t satisfactorily define transgender either. You can’t keep referring to
transgender people without really defining what you mean by gender, how you
define a transgender person, and how you explain your metric for defining a
transgender person amid the clams people are able to make about themselves in
terms of their complex identity. Would you define me as a transgender person if
I declared myself a woman in order to enter female weight lifting competitions?
If so, why? If not, why not? What are your metrics? If you can't answer these
questions, then you can just say so. If you don't know why these questions are
important, then you can also say so, and I'll try to elaborate. But if you fail
to see the importance of these questions, and either ignore them, pretend they
are not necessary, or change the subject, then you're not engaging at the level
required to be having this discussion in the way you are trying to.
Objection
6: Denying people the ability to identify as whatever gender they choose is an
abuse of their individual liberties.
I'm
certainly not trying to gainsay people's individual feelings or internal senses
of experiences - I just don't know of a rigorous scientific definition that
encapsulates what gender actually means. People can identify as made-up genders
if they wish – but it doesn’t mean I have to think it’s a good idea that they
do so.
But
this works both ways too; there are plenty of people who have had their individual
liberties compromised by this wave of gender-based ideology – and none of the
people debating this with me are acknowledging any of the costs. For example, in
the UK, there have been quite a few high profile cases where men have claimed
to identify as a women and won medals in the female categories of sporting
events - even in weightlifting and boxing on two rather infamous cases. They
have an unfair advantage, and that undermines the sport because it's grossly
unfair to the women competitors. There have also been high profile disasters
with men in women's prisons, and lots of disgruntled women fighting back
against men (identifying as women) being freely encouraged to use female
toilets if they wish. My position on this is clear; I do not think anyone born
a male should be able to do these things.
And
perhaps the greater costs of all are borne by children (and their parents) who
are being infected with these disturbing mind pathogens about sex and gender
that are invoking confusion and distorted perspectives on reality. What begins
as perceived lack of congruity between a person’s biological sex and their
gender presentation usually gets washed out in maturity, where one becomes
clear about one’s sex and identity. But until then, there is widespread
confusion about the distribution of sex-related personality and behavioural
distinctions, and this is creating a crisis of irresponsible teaching. Young
children shouldn’t be telling us they have been born in the wrong body - but
when this happens they should be carefully nurtured towards more facts and
greater wisdom, and given time to grow and develop. The trend towards alarmism,
pandering to their whims, and worse, irreversible and harmful medical and
surgical interventions are a damaging development that needs urgently
addressing.
I
think society has become too craven and too ridiculous when it comes to all
these daft pronouns on offer: a multitude of superfluous pronouns like co, ey,
xie, ze etc that don’t have any scientific basis, and only serve to create attention-seeking
demands and misguided attempts to deal with psychological/emotional issues that
are best addressed in more empirically evidential ways.
I'm
not saying that humans can't introspect and come up with many different
feelings, ideas and physiological experiences from which they might wish to
lump them together and give them an overarching category called gender. But
trying to make sense of an accumulation of human introspections by inventing an
abstract term and seeking to categorise all of them combinatorically is proving
to be epistemologically impractical, because there is no exogenous, objective
definition we can agree on to define gender.
Conclusion
It
wasn't difficult to get Chat GPT to agree with me that a society tends to
function better when terms are defined more clearly and factually, and when
there are fewer ambiguous terms embedded into our discourse, especially in
highly emotive areas where reason and facts are often not prioritised - it's
just a shame that the social scientists who debated with me couldn't yield to
the same kind of rigorous persuasion.
This
issue is clearly an issue of high sensitivity, and there are going to be
significant costs with whichever position one takes. For me, it's perhaps wise
to think of this in terms of type 1 and type 2 category errors. A type 1 error,
as you may know, is the incorrect rejection of a null hypothesis that is true.
An example would be, when a jury delivers a guilty verdict in the trial of an innocent
defendant. A type 1 error is generally an error that infers an effect or
correlation or causality that doesn't actually exist (a false positive). A type
2 error is the failure to reject a false null hypothesis. An example would be
when a jury delivers an innocent verdict in the trial of a guilty defendant. A
type 2 error is generally an error that fails to infer an effect or correlation
or causality that does actually exist (a false negative).
What
we are all doing, for ourselves and on the basis of what we believe, is
considering what type of error we are most willing to risk. Because there's a
risk that by not calling someone, say, they/them at their request you're making
an error that's unfair to that individual (and by extension to the wider
society), but there's also a risk that by calling someone they/them at their
request you're making an error that's also unfair to that individual (in the
longer term, and by extension to the wider society). I've tried to weigh up
both sets of circumstances, and tried to undertake my own individual risk
calculi, in accordance with what I believe, in conjunction with the arguments I
can make and the arguments I hear others make, and that's how I've arrived at
the position I have. Those accusing me of being cruel and dehumanising are not
even pretending to engage with the depth and severity of the situation.
The
upshot of all this is that humans are complex, in terms of having different experiential
variables; they have differing levels of masculinity, varying places on the
sexuality spectrum, different phenotypical structures, different levels of
comfort with their bodies, different affiliations with both sexes, different
temperaments, different levels of anxiety, varying emotional connections with
others, different tastes, different responses to physical touch, diverse ranges
of neurological development, multiple ways of expressing themselves in terms of
looks, style and fashion, and a highly complex and dynamic sense of self and
personal identity in a multitude of places and stages in life. We know so much
about psychological factors related to identity, to hormones, to masculinity
and femininity, to sexuality, etc - and what that does, I believe, is show us
that being male and being female encapsulates a whole range of subset traits,
feelings and identities to do with the above. That doesn't mean that we stop
becoming male or female, it means we expand our conceptions of maleness and
femaleness.
If
you look at male and female personalities in totality, their similarities far
outweigh their differences, but there are plenty of differences too, and these
play out in their respective relationships, attitudes, careers and priorities
(to name but four). Personality differences are significant, but they are not
the same as sex differences - hence sex and gender should not be used
interchangeably - and the fact that they so often are is not helping the
debate, especially for our children.
All
of these are profound things to explore and assess, and our best efforts to do
so reveal lots of subset elements about the nature of being human. But I
maintain that adding the extraneous term 'gender' to all this adds no value to
the considerations, and instead imputes needless ambiguity and confusion. What
is needed, I submit, is the admission of a broader understanding of the
categories of male and female, and the realisation that the traits being
claimed to have one foot in one camp and one in the other are really just
claims that misunderstand the true breadth and depth of the two fundamental
categories.
We
can look back at every age that preceded us and identify things they were doing
that were absurd, wacky, ignorant and extreme - and I believe it's prudent for
every contemporary age to do the same, including us. What are we of today doing
that our descendants will look back on with complete horror and incredulity? I
am fairy confident that this wanton abuse of the reality of biological sex and
the liberal assault on language with the ‘gender’ constructions will be seen as
one of them.
In
closing, I've spent a fair amount of time discussing gender with scientists in
various fields, and despite my open invitation and diligent considerations of
their points, no one has been able to justify the efficacy of the word 'gender'
to me in terms of its ontology and epistemology, so I remain unconvinced of its
merits.